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Have you ever considered and formulated the values \u200b\u200byou have? What values \u200b\u200bdoes your partner have ? Or should have (when you’re single)?<\/p>\n
Clarity about own and shared values \u200b\u200bcreates harmony inside and out.<\/p>\n
When asked, most people say honesty is their most important value. Followed by integrity and loyalty.<\/p>\n
Wonderful. Because now we are in the middle of it: what else is important to you? What about: safety, adventure, family, knowledge, appreciation, assertiveness, freedom, friendship …<\/p>\n
It continues\/goes on: these are your values. Do you live up to them? How? Do you take value-based decisions?<\/p>\n
When you act detached from your values, you\u00b4ll realize that. You\u00b4ll feel uncomfortable. You start pondering. You wake up at night. You are not at peace with yourself.<\/p>\n
If so, then set out on the journey to your values, for they are all there already. Trust in the journey.<\/p>\n
When I moderate a discussion on values with a couple, the most astonishing developments are bound to happen. What values \u200b\u200bdo I stand for, what values \u200b\u200bdo you stand for, which ones do we share as a couple? How can everyone do that for themselves, how can we live this together?<\/p>\n
This can be a real jolt in the partnership. A kick that allows a completely new, \u201cvalue-adding\u201dcommunication that ideally brings new closeness.<\/p>\n
Particularly in a break-up situation, it can mark a turning point in (re)-discovering one’s own values: the start of a new, more authentic life.<\/p>\n
Just start, find your values. Name them. And live them.<\/p>\n
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Picture credits: Pixabay \/ Engin_Akyurt<\/p>\n
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