{"id":1775,"date":"2018-06-15T13:15:09","date_gmt":"2018-06-15T11:15:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.annette-oschmann.de\/youre-special\/"},"modified":"2018-06-15T13:21:15","modified_gmt":"2018-06-15T11:21:15","slug":"youre-special","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.annette-oschmann.de\/en\/youre-special\/","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re special"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243;][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_image _builder_version=&#8221;3.1.1&#8243; src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.annette-oschmann.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Frau-Hut-Blumenwiese.jpg&#8221; alt=&#8221;Woman in Sunshine&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Woman radiant self-cofident&#8221; \/][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.4.1&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>You are special, unique, a sparkling diamond. Beautiful, smart, warmhearted. You have many wonderful qualities, many strengths, a few endearing weaknesses, you are an all-out wonderful human being. Someone special.This is a deep conviction of mine about human beings. But do you believe that too?<\/p>\n<p>To be small is easy and comfortable. You cannot be this, cannot do that, and you may be keeping a long list of deficiencies \/ shortcomings on yourself.Know what? Write them down, all your shortcomings. And then shred your list, with pleasure and pure delectation. Because the list is not right. The truth is:you are special.<\/p>\n<p>American author Marianne Williamson spoke wise words which have become familiar to many of us. Here\u00b4s an excerpt:<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.&#8221;<\/em> (From: A Return to Love)<\/p>\n<p>That goes for you, that goes for everyone. You&#8217;re special. Become aware of your power.<\/p>\n<p>Your own power to recognize your own value carries you much further. Anyone who appreciates themselves is also perceived differently by his\/her own partner in a partnership: The appreciation of your partner begins with you. You&#8217;re special. Go see for yourself!<\/p>\n<p>And conversely, as long as you do not value yourself, hardly anyone else will. Not even your partner, from whom you may long for nothing more than appreciation and esteem.<\/p>\n<p>Appreciating yourself has nothing to do with mindless egoism. Much to the contrary: those who value themselves are at peace with themselves. And he\/she who is at peace with him\/herself, is relaxed and can give generously.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re special. You may start seeing it that way too, <u>now that you\u00b4ve given yourself permission<\/u>. 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